Thursday, July 30, 2009


If one more talk show or morning show speaks of this, I just might blow my roof! Frenemy is a friend who acts more like your enemy. (enemy in friends clothing)
The different levels of frenemies:
The black hole- always negative, nothing positive to say.
Queen Me- Will always change the story to make it center her.
Unfriendly Competition- Anything you can do I can do better.
Gossipy- The town crier, sinister, gossips to make you look worse than her
Comments of a Frenemy
"You look tired" A way of telling you that you look a hot mess!
"I saw your boy friend and his new girl she sooooo pretty she looks like model"-
"I'm sorry you feel that way, A half a** apology
"Those shoes are soooo you"-You would say thank you till you realize, this isnt really a compliment
I befriended someone like this before. She was the unfriendly competitor. If I got honey blond streaks she'd die her hair platinum. If I get a cute new boyfriend, she'd get 2!

Do You have any frenemies? Do any of these sound familiar? Put em on blast or just share your experience.


James Tubman said...

i have a whole bunch of frenemies but i have such an understanding of human nature that it doesnt bother me anymore

i know who i can really talk to and who i cant talk to

i know who's most miserable and who's not

the thing you have to realise is, if anybody is trying to make you miserable or acts in a negative way its because they are miserable themselves

they should be pitied rather than be the source of anger

they have a lot of personal problems and the best thing you can do for them is feel sorry for them and thank God you are not that miserable

Tia's Real Talk said...

You are right...they need prayer!! Two things I've posted on FB...

1, Stop trying to change people, accept them for who they are and what they display then handle them accordingly.

2, Why be mean to your enimies. They are only your enimies because you decided thats what they would be.

James Tubman said...

i never saw it like that big sis

really makes you think

remind me about that event because i really am going

Don said...
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Tia's Real Talk said...

Wow..hey man. I'm glad you are ok. I prayed for you many of nights. I didnt know I had comments from you until Freespririt told me you were back. Welcome!!