Sometimes when we are in love we tend to try and make the other feel the same. But one thing we must realize is the more we try, and the harder we persuade, the further we will push them away. You win the Heart of your Lover by letting them go, by giving them the room to CHOOSE to be with you. Actions will influence the heart. What you do and do not do, will have a huge impact on the heart of your lover. The best way to get them to feel the same way is to let them know how you feel for them and then give them time to reciprocate the feelings.
DO NOT CHASE HIM LADIES!!
No man wants a needy, desperate woman. Don't you want a man that thinks of you even when you haven't called him? Don't you want him to pursue you more than you are pursuing him? If leaving him alone does not bring him closer to you then he wasn't the one for you from the start.
Leaving him/her alone will make one of two things happen:
OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND
ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER.
All in all, He that finds a wife finds a good thing. God will bring him/her in your path when HE has finished preparing him/her for your destined, pre-approved meet. Be patient, not desperate, do not settle and most importantly, WAIT ON THE LORD!!!!