Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Your actions influence the heart, not persuasion....



Sometimes when we are in love we tend to try and make the other feel the same. But one thing we must realize is the more we try, and the harder we persuade, the further we will push them away. You win the Heart of your Lover by letting them go, by giving them the room to CHOOSE to be with you. Actions will influence the heart. What you do and do not do, will have a huge impact on the heart of your lover. The best way to get them to feel the same way is to let them know how you feel for them and then give them time to reciprocate the feelings.


DO NOT CHASE HIM LADIES!!


No man wants a needy, desperate woman. Don't you want a man that thinks of you even when you haven't called him? Don't you want him to pursue you more than you are pursuing him? If leaving him alone does not bring him closer to you then he wasn't the one for you from the start.

Leaving him/her alone will make one of two things happen:


OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND


or


ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER.


All in all, He that finds a wife finds a good thing. God will bring him/her in your path when HE has finished preparing him/her for your destined, pre-approved meet. Be patient, not desperate, do not settle and most importantly, WAIT ON THE LORD!!!!

8 comments:

Mizrepresent said...

Preach girl, a very real message, that even i need to hear!

Jaycee said...

I actually like that quote, "absence makes the heart fonder..."

Don said...

Yes, your actions definitely influenced the heart.

Woman and men bounded by spirit shouldn't have to chase each other. Agreed.

Tia's Real Talk said...

Well said Don....

"Woman and men bounded by spirit shouldn't have to chase each other."

I will have to use that one.

Don said...

You gave no response towards where I spoke of YOUR actions definitely influencing the heart.

As you can see, that particular portion of my comment wasn't typed using invisible ink.

Um, was your reply?

Tia's Real Talk said...

Well I gave no response because you only quoted what I've already said. Now I see that you made "your" in caps as if you are speaking to me specifically. And yes you are right. Everything I do influence someones heart in one way or another. But everyone knows that I don't read in between the lines. I say what I mean and I think that others should do the same.

Don said...

Everything I do influence someones heart in one way or another. But everyone knows that I don't read in between the lines. I say what I mean and I think that others should do the same

Interesting. And I swear this is what others have often repeated towards myself. Being a person who thinks before I speak (9 times out of 10)I imagine I could read between the lines, but what if wrong? Then what? So, in that embarrassing gamble, I rather completely ignore the trivial opposed to a person just coming out and saying what, in our hearts, that particular person and I both know, he or she wants to say.


Feel me?


Just say you don't.

Tia's Real Talk said...

I feel most of what you are saying. Clarity is needed for the total picture. But I feel you.