Thursday, July 7, 2011

What Should I do???

So, my fam and I just left Chicago Tuesday. We were there for 6 days and had a nice time. This trip was more for the kids than hubby and I. They had a great time. They played, swam, went to BBQ's and hung with cousins ALL day EVERY day!!

Unfortunately, it wasn't the trip for hubby and I as it usually is. We didn't do a date night or go to the lake like we do EVERY time we go home. We didn't do a date night at all!!! So hubby says that maybe we should make our Florida trip that was originally a family trip, just a trip for him and I. The kids don't know about Florida so it's not like they are expecting it. We would leave in a week. He says that they had a great trip and we focused on them now we should focus on us now. I soooooooooooo want to leave them but I feel guilty. Feels like I shouldn't play without them. Especially in Florida..that has always been our family vacay...but however, we did miss our chance to play in Chicago. What do you think? It's only for the weekend....should we steal away without the kids...or take them with us??


25champ said...

Dnt feel guilty...u and ur husband are more than deserving of alittle alone u said they don't know about the trip so the won't's good to go reconnect with the man you love

Moanerplicity said...

I agree. Go! Everyone, whether single or in a relationship needs some quality time, and that's exactly what Florida would be: a time to relax, relate & release inside the unique & special qualities of each other.

Snatch JOY!


Mizrepresent said...

I'm with the fellas, you should go and enjoy! Got to keep that spark and that flame!